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August 17, 2010
- Eco Friendly Accessories - Milena's Must-Have


October 25, 2009
- Shine Like a Diamond!

Color, Cut, Clarity and Carat - the 4 C's for finding the perfect diamond. If you want to shine like a diamond apply the same principles to your wardrobe! 

Color  Color is powerful! Some colors will enhance your best features like your eyes and soften any flaws like circles under your eyes. If you are wearing the wrong colors you could unintentionally be accentuating an uneven skin tone or making yourself appear paler. With the right colors you can camouflage those flaws and brighten your complexion, making you appear even younger! First, find out if you have a warm or cool undertone. If you have a warm undertone you'll look better in orange/yellow based colors. If you have a cool undertone, you'll look better in green/blue based colors. Don't know if you are warm or cool? Schedule a Style Assessment ($25 off to milenablog readers). Once you know what colors work for you, try and keep those colors close to your face. Either avoid the colors that don't or wear them in other places such as a skirt or a handbag.

Cut  How a garment fits you depends largely upon how it is cut. You will find that higher quality fabrics and designs not only cost more, but fit better. Nothing beats a custom made shirt or suit that fits you precisely. However, if you don't have a budget for custom clothing, then it's even more important that you pay attention to cut. You are only as small as your body is, so wearing clothing that contours your body closely will be most flattering. Wearing boxy clothing or clothes that are too big or too tight are only going to add unneeded volume to your figure. Use cut to create clean lines and accentuate or camouflage where necessary.

Clarity  Create a wardrobe strategy by having a clear idea of what your style is now and where you would like it to be. Many of us buy the same things out of habit or buy foolishly because of a lack of time or planning. Know that your lifestyle and budget change throughout your life so if you are still shopping in the teen section and you have your own teen that is a sign you need to re-evaluate your wardrobe strategy. The best way to determine what you need is to first figure out what you have. Evaluate your wardrobe and clean out the things that you don't wear, don't fit or are worn out. Make a list of items that you are missing or need replacing. This will give you the direction you need to start building your wardrobe. If you are overwhelmed at the thought of this, schedule a Wardrobe Edit with your favorite personal stylist and your closet will be cleaned out and you'll have a shopping list in less than 4 hours!

Carat  Measure the value of your wardrobe to you based on how it affects you emotionally and physically. "Look Successful. Feel Successful. Be Successful." When you have on an outfit that you know makes you look good, your confidence peaks and you feel empowered! It's not about having the latest styles and trends-I actually tell most of my clients to limit their trendy clothes to only 10% of their wardrobe-it's about feeling put together and viewing yourself positively! Knowing that you deserve to look and feel good is the first step to creating a wardrobe that is rich in carats! 


October 6, 2009
- Dress Like "You" for Halloween...Scary Thought?

Have you ever thought about being yourself for Halloween?  If “you" were hanging on the rack of a costume shop would you want to be “you"? What would “you" look like?

Halloween is a time for us to experiment, have fun and even try out an alter ego!  Think of the time and thought you put into a costume for one night, compared to the ones you wear every day.  It could be scary.  Like it or not, we live in a world where we are constantly judged on appearance.  Even without being discriminating we have certain assumptions that we make about an individual.  If you see someone who has a wrinkly shirt on you may assume that they are lazy or messy.  If you see someone at an event wearing khakis when everyone else is wearing a suit, you might think they are at the wrong place or that they're part of the staff.

Think about the “costume" that you wear everyday.  What does it say about you?  If you are intelligent, organized, and creative on the inside then you want your clothes to say those same things on the outside.  Take those words that you want people to associate with you and find ways to visualize them through your clothes.  Here are a few tips and examples using men's shirts and women's suits:

Powerful/Ambitious– use striped patterns, angled or straight cut styles and dark colors to convey authority.  Keep clothing tailored to fit your body and wear crisp and smooth fabrics.











 
 
Friendly/Caring– use rounded patterns, curved styles and soft, muted colors like mauve or brown to convey friendliness.  Clothing can be a little looser and full of texture.
 










 
 
Creative/Modern– mix patterns, combine styles and use splashes of bold color over neutral colors like grey and black.  Blend loose and tight clothing together in one outfit.











 
 
The key is to truly look like “you", whatever that is.  We use the word "costume" in place of "outfit", only because of the holiday.  Your outfit should never feel like a costume!  For example, some women may feel like they are wearing a costume if they were outfitted in some of the clothes we’ve seen on Carrie Bradshaw in Sex in the City.  While many of these are amazing couture pieces, for some women it would feel like they were playing dress up.

Your costume should be desirable.  First ask yourself how you feel about it and then ask a close friend.  Have them give you three things they like about your style and any constructive criticism on what they dislike.  You can even be as direct to ask them if they would want to wear your costume.  Finding out why or why not will let you if you need a little tweaking or a whole new fitting.  If you have been wearing the wrong costume for years, you may just seek the expert advice of a stylist, like Milena.  She’ll help you create a costume that represents you on the inside and fits just right on the outside!


September 10, 2009
- Give Fall the Boot!

Boots are this season’s must have and you wouldn’t dare live without!  Not only do boots keep your tootsies warm into winter, you can easily create an eye catching look by pairing them with everything from t-shirts to dresses! 
 
Boots are so big this fall that I had to narrow down the styles that I could cover in this little blog.  The truth is, you can wear almost any style and be right in sync!  Regardless of the style, you'll see a lot of boots with buckles, suede and roll-over tops, just a few details to make them unique!  Here a few worth trying!!
 
Women's
 
 
Ankle Booties:  A trend we saw last fall is here to stay!  This is one of those shoes that may not be for everyone.  Pair these with skinny jeans or a dress with tights.  It plays out best on people with little feet and proportionate bodies.  Done incorrectly and you can wind up looking like a holiday elf! (Not Rated)
 
 
 
Over the Knee Boots:  I’m still a little nervous to see how these play out in realty!  On the runway with models who have 10 inch round legs that are 10 feet long, they can be quite appealing.  The key is to create a sleek legging-like look.  If you are worried that you’ll look more trampy than trendy – avoid a lot of embellishments like studs or any sort of bling.  These leggy fashion boots are showy enough, so keep them simple. (Joie)
 
 
 
Cowboy Boots/Biker Boots:  Although these aren’t at all the same type of boot, I paired them together because both are boots that require a certain personality or attitude to look right.  Wear either boot with confidence and only if they feel like you.  Opt for ones that are lighter in appearance and weight to keep them from looking overwhelming or making you feel like you gained a few.  Choose a style that has some feminine flair to it.  If you want to try either out for style and don’t see yourself as a biker or a cowboy in the future, buy these boots on sale or at a discount store. (Steve Madden)
 
 
 
Slouchy Boots:  With all the 80’s hype in clothing and accessories, these boots easily stroll right into the mix!  Wear your slouchy boots with skinny jeans, tights or even a full skirt!  You need contrast to make them stand out.  I love slouchy boots in grey suede or any soft neutral color.  These are flats so you'd almost imagine them to feel like modern-day super-hero slippers! (Steve Madden)
 
 


August 13, 2009
- Wrap Up Your Summer in a Scarf! 2

One of summer’s hottest accessories makes a great transition into fall for both men and women!  Literally, tie your look together with a scarf!  A scarf can keep you warm as the temperatures drop and also double as a wrap for those cool summer nights. Men can add a scarf to a simple t-shirt and jeans and they’re ready for a night out with the boys of Entourage!

There are countless ways to wear your scarf and several different types of scarves.  The most important thing to remember is that the current trend is a bit loose and effortless, so don’t get too caught up on perfecting the style. 

Choose a style that you feel comfortable in.  A simple wrap around the neck is easy and chic.  Check out how Kardashian, Diaz, Hudson, Pitt, Bartha and Timberlake do this look (below).

 

Notice that each one used a long rectangular scarf, varying the looseness of the scarf to create different looks.  They all paired their scarves with very basic, not flashy pieces.  A scarf dresses up a simple outfit!  Pairing printed scarves with solid pieces is an easy way to be sure you don’t have too much going on in your outfit.  You don’t want your scarf competing for attention!

Another way to wear your scarf is the slip not.  Fold your long rectangular scarf in half.  Hold the looped end on one side of your neck while pulling both ends around to the other side.  Slip both of the loose ends of the one side through the loop of the other.  Pull and adjust the scarf for the desired fit.  This style can keep you really warm in the cool months and works with both thin and thick fabrics!  Beckham and Jackman have it right!

Another type of scarf is the square scarf.  Rihanna does this perfectly!  Simply fold your scarf in half.  Wrap the scarf around your neck with the point of the triangle pointing down the front.  Wrap the ends around your neck and slightly pull them back towards the front.  Let your ends drape loosely.  This style requires a bit of an edge for men and women to pull off, so don't be shy when wearing this scene stealer!  

Lastly, try wearing your scarf more like a wrap or turtle neck.  This can be done in a lot of variations too!  For the basic wrap, start in the middle of the scarf and wrap one end around your neck.  Then wrap the other end, securing the ends underneath the scarf so it doesn't come undone.  See all the unique ways that Alba wears this look! 

These are just a few ways you can begin to wear a scarf!  Experiment with different looks and see what works for you!


June 29, 2009
- Your Boyfriend Called...He Wants His Jeans Back!

I’ve never been a big fan of trends and this one is right there with the rest of them!  The boyfriend jean really doesn’t flatter anyone!  If you are fortunate enough to be thin - you should show off your figure and if you’ve got a few extra pounds – adding extra volume is only going to make you appear larger!  In addition to making you look like your carrying some extra baggage, the cropped style is making your legs appear shorter and wider!  Yes, it’s true.  Your legs stop where the jeans end and this means you visually have 2’5��? legs or shorter for many of us petite types.  Boyfriends jeans are a trend so if you must buy them, don’t waste your money on designer jeans because eventually they are going to be “out��? again (but probably not soon enough). 

 

Instead of following the crowd this summer, opt for a classic white jean to add some style to your wardrobe.  Here a few tips to pull off this summer chic jean:
 

1.  Chose a jean instead of a pant as they are thicker and won’t show pockets or panty lines!
 
2.  Wear nude (not white) thong panties – you don’t want lines or dark shadows!
 
3.  Try a skinny jean for a straight figure or a bootcut style if you are curvier!
 
4.  Pair white pants with a bright colored top or printed top to balance out a heavier bottom.  Avoid wearing black or dark colors on top as you will visually exaggerate the width of your hip and thigh area!
 
5.  Keep pockets minimal.  Cargo pockets will add width to your hip area and flaps on the back pockets will add inches to your back side.  If you are in need of a little extra curve, flap pockets on your bottom can do wonders!


May 1, 2009
- 10 Reasons to Hire an Image Consultant

An image consultant is not just a personal shopper - someone who picks out clothes for you and tells you what looks best. As an image consultant, my job is to teach you why certain things make you look better than others and how to do it yourself. I will teach you how to fish!

1. I teach you what looks best (color, fit, style) on you and why!

2. I show you what is and what isn't working in your wardrobe and why!

3. I remix and match your current wardrobe saving you money on buying new clothing!

4. I find what is missing from your wardrobe and create a shopping list so you are armed with a plan!

5. I am able to save you time on building your wardrobe because I do all the shopping for you!

6. I move you out of your comfort zone to help you modernize your style, while staying true to who you are and what works for your lifestyle!

7. I teach you the skills so that you are empowered with the knowledge and confidence to shop for yourself!

8. I help you project a polished and professional image so you positively influence customers, clients, and colleagues!

9. I keep up with the current styles and trends and attend image education classes, so you don't have to!

10. I ensure that you have a wardrobe that works for both your professional and social life and everything in-between!


January 11, 2009
- Move Out of Your Comfort Zone

Have you made any New Year's Resolutions for your wardrobe in 2009? It might seem silly to think about, but I guarantee there are a lot of changes that will make you feel fine in 2009! This year, resolve to MOVE OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!

1. Try a New Store or Brand...
Many of us go to the same "safe" or staple stores and brands to buy what we know, or at least what we think, works. By taking the easy way out, you are missing out on the endless possibilities to find unique pieces to rev-up your style. The same-old is boring. Diversify your closet and you'll feel like new!

2. Try a New Color...
If your closet is a sea of black or resembles Pepto Bismol, then commit to seeking out a new color this year. It will add life to your closet and I guarantee you will get compliments because everyone around you will be pleasantly surprised to see the monotony end and see you in something new!

3. Don't Wait for "Something Special"...
You know those fancy dresses or tops you save for a special occasion? Pull them out and put them on right now! Stop waiting for some day that never seems to come. If you avoid wearing it because it is expensive, that is all the more reason to start wearing it now. You need to get as many wears as you can out of that hand-made dress to make it pay for itself!

4. Put on Something Sexy...
Feel good about yourself and your body this year and sass it up a bit! Get the cute panties and bras out of the bedroom and into your everyday wardrobe. Your undergarments are the foundation for every outfit, so you want whatever is closest to your skin to make you feel good. Try to wear something a little more form fitted (not tight) than usual. Maybe bare a little more skin (not your belly) than usual. When you look sexy, you feel sexy, and ultimately you will be sexy!

5. Get Dolled-Up, For Work...
When you think about how much of your day is spent at your job, why wouldn't you want to feel good the majority of each day? You deserve to feel great every day, not just for special occasions. Taking the time to look polished for work will make you professionally more attractive to clients and co-workers, which can result in more sales, better relationships or even a promotion!


October 3, 2008
- Fashionable Football Fan

Hey ladies, football season is here and chances are you'll be spending at least a few Sundays or Monday nights watching the game with your man or if your like me, with a great group of girlfriends (while looking for men).  Whether you'll be hosting a party at your home or you'll be front row at the stadium, here are some great tips to keep you looking like the fashionable football fan you are!

You don't need to bulk-up for the game, but wearing a lot of layers whether you are inside or out can be hip. Think of long sleeve t-shirts with short-sleeve sweaters, graphic t-shirts, or shrunken blazers. There are a lot of fun sweater jackets in stores right now. Layer these with graphic t-shirts, cotton camisoles, or a fitted long sleeve t-shirt.  If your lucky to go to one of the sunny games, wear a traditional 1" strapped ribbed tank with a cool graphic.  Bring a coordinating hoodie/sweater jacket just in case the afternoon clouds/rain role in.  A cotton, day casual sundress is very chic.  Be sure to pair it with flip flops or casual sandals to keep from looking over dressed.

Jeans & Shoes:
Jeans are all-American just like football. Chose a flattering style and color to keep your look put together and not sloppy. In general, most people look good in a boot-cut dark denim. Pair jeans with a cute flat or driving loafer rather than an athletic shoe. Another option is to find a fun casual sneaker. Don't know the difference between an athletic shoe and a sneaker? If you would run a mile or more in it, it is the wrong shoe.

Team Jersey
If you are going to wear a jersey, please don't borrow your boyfriend/husband's. You still need to pay attention to fit, even in a jersey. Several stores carry "women's fit" jerseys and if those are still too big, take a stroll in the kids section. Wear the jersey with a long sleeve fitted t-shirt, not a turtle neck which will have you looking like your mother, no matter what age you are. And whatever you do, don't tuck it in! This is sportswear not a dress shirt. If you feel like you need to tuck it in, then it is too big.

Team Colors:It's always chic to sport the team colors. But what if you're a Broncos Superfan and orange makes you look sick? Just wear the color away from your face. This is why layering is key.

Here are a few fashion fumbles for any football fan
Heels - You'll just look out of place or like you are one the "fans" waiting for the players after the game.
Spaghetti strap tanks, low-cut shirts, tube tops
I don't think this needs an explanation, but see above.

Silk, rayon, linen or any fabrics used for dresses
with all the cheering, clapping and fist pumping you are sure to do, these materials will not only look out of place, but will just look disastrous at the end of the game.

Chandelier earrings
or any jewelry that could potentially injure you or someone nearby. (again, the fist pumping)

Athletic shoes
these are functional shoes, so unless you are running or training at the game, there is really no need to wear them.

Big T-shirts
We are talking the "I've been to Florida" and "Bud-Light" t-shirts here, not the cute shrunken graphic t-shirts. These are just frumpy and unflattering.

Anything wrapped around your waist
Whether it is your sweatshirt or your fanny pack, there is nothing attractive about adding extra bulk at your waist. Bring a cute tote or satchel type purse with you. It can hold all the stuff you would keep in your fanny pack and you can fold your sweatshirt over the top when you get hot.

Face Painting -If you've ever seen the Seinfeld episode where Elaine dates the face-painter, you'll know how ridiculous this is. Face painting ends at age 12. Period.


August 5, 2008
- Check Yourself

Apart from getting a complete style make-over from Milena Distinctive Image Consulting

Here's a list of small things that can make a huge impact on the image you portray to others. Avoid these all too common image blunders:

  • Too much make-up Avoid looking like a clown by choosing just one feature to play up with color, for example your eyes. The rest -cheeks, lips... should be use soft, natural colors. Never match your eye shadow color to the color of your your outfit (purple shirt=purple eyeshadow). Badly pilled garments - your dating your clothing and dating yourself
  • Bleeding lipstick - use a liner in the same or lighter color to help 'seal-in' lipstick.
  • Perspiration stains - rumor has it that adding an aspirin to your wash will help remove these stains.
  • Stripes or patterns on clothes that don't match up at the seams - a sign of poor quality clothing.
  • Revealing and underwear or bra straps - we know or at least hope they are under there.
  • Chipped nail polish or unkept hands and nails - the most chic style is to go with a clear natural nail.
  • Strong perfume or body odor - your personal space is within one foot circumference of your body, if I can smell you beyond that, there is a severe problem.
  • Overly coordinated outfits - when you are too matchy-matchy, it's a red-flag that says you have no style. Matching your handbag and your shoes is a very dated looked and should be avoided.